Why should I consider registering for Messiah’s Respite Events?

• It is a win-win! These events give you, the caregiver, a break and options for support, while your loved one can socialize with others in a fun, caring environment, where they can be themselves.

Is there a cost for my loved one to attend a Messiah Respite Care event?

• No. There is not a cost. We rely upon donations and volunteers so that we can keep this a free service.
• We are always grateful for financial support and donations of craft supplies, snack items, games, or other activity items.

Do I need to be a member of Messiah Lutheran to attend?

• No. You are welcome to attend!

Is there a minimum or maximum age requirement for participants?

• No. These events are only for those with dementia, and dementia affects a wide range of ages.

Does my loved one need to have an official diagnosis of dementia to participate?

• No. An official diagnosis of a dementia/Alzheimer’s isn’t necessary.
• We do suggest that undiagnosed memory issues be addressed with a physician. Some memory issues can be the result of infections or other underlying conditions and can be treated.

How often do you have Respite events?

• Our Respite events will be every 3 months on a Saturday morning for 2 hours.

Do you provide transportation to Messiah Respite Care events?

• No. Unfortunately, at this time we do not provide transportation.

Do I have to fill out the admission forms prior to attending?

• Yes. We require all paperwork to be submitted prior to attending so that we can appropriately accommodate each participant attending and schedule enough volunteers.

What will my loved one do at Messiah Respite Care event?

• Your loved one will be assigned a companion – volunteer friend – who will remain with him/her throughout their time on campus.
• The volunteer friend will guide him/her through their choice of a variety of activities such as: crafts, puzzles, board games, cards, music, quiet time, reading, snack break, etc.

Who will care for my loved one?

• Our volunteers will be individuals high school-age and above.
• Our volunteers will be required to take training that addresses the various needs and communication styles for those with dementia.
• The program is overseen by nurses and those with advanced degrees in dementia care.

My loved one exhibits actions/behaviors such as wandering and aggression at times. Does this disqualify them from the respite program?

• It depends. Many behaviors associated with dementia are largely due to a result of miscommunication and diminished communication capacity. We would be happy to visit with you regarding your concerns or apprehensions.

My loved one is in a wheelchair. Can they still attend?

• Yes. Messiah Lutheran Church is an ADA compliant facility.

My loved one is incontinent or needs assistance to use the bathroom. Can they still attend?

• Yes. Incontinence and bathroom assistance are common needs for those with dementia. We have nurses on site to assist with bathroom needs.
• We ask that you provide supplies (Depends, wipes, etc) and a change of clothes for your loved one – just in case.
• We cannot provide support for ostomies, catheters, or other invasive care procedures.
• We will make sure each participant always receives dignified care.

My loved one takes medication. Is there a nurse on site that can administer medication?

• We will have a nurse on site. However, we cannot administer medication or treatment procedures. We suggest that you contact your doctor to see if there are alternative medication schedules that can be prescribed so your loved one can still attend.

May I leave campus after I drop my loved one off?

• Yes. This is intended to be an opportunity for you to have some time to care for yourself! Take time to relax, connect with others, or check some things off your to do list.

May I stay on campus?

• Yes. If you prefer to remain on campus, you are more than welcome to. 
• We provide a quiet place to sit and read, watch tv, listen to music, or to simply visit with someone.
• We also provide supportive services such as pastoral care and dementia education.
• You are also welcome to be a part of the experience along with your loved one. 

Can I bring a helper or caregiver (grandson, daughter, friend, son, etc.)?

• Unfortunately, no. Our volunteers all receive dementia training; therefore, we cannot accept this responsibility due to Messiah Lutheran Church’s insurance policy.

Will I be able to talk to someone who could help me with caregiving concerns and questions?

• Yes. We will have professional volunteer staff and resources available.
• There will be a professional counselor on campus for brief discussions. We can refer you to other services at your request.

Who may I contact if I have additional questions?

• You are welcome to contact  Mollie George.

Click here to fill out a registration form for the person in your care. 

If you’ve already attended one of our Respite Events, click here to RSVP for upcoming Respite Events. Contact  Mollie George for more info.